Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal children can be orphans.
The adopted child is not the same as your own children. A mismatch between expectations and reality that drives you insane. Especially hard is for couples, who have children of their own. In this case, the comparison of friends and foes (not in favor of the latter, of course) transforms the lives of the whole family into a nightmare.
Love nonnative, and in addition the “difficult” child as your own is never easy. To do this, the adoptive parents will have to seriously work on myself and very much aware.
This is very different children
Your children were born in an atmosphere of love. And for many orphans “happy” childhood is associated with hunger, drunken debauchery parents and the beatings. You spoiled their kids with toys and sweets. And these crumbs fell asleep not cozy in the nursery and in the common room of the orphanage, they learned how to steal and cheat to survive. In addition, in dysfunctional families Continue reading
Spain shocked the scandal with the theft of hundreds of thousands of children
Stolen children in Spain. Here scandal is gaining momentum associated with the theft of children in hospitals across the country. The Spaniards learned that for several decades, starting with the 40’s until the 90’s, doctors, nurses and nuns took away children from their parents and given up for adoption or sold. The Spanish authorities have admitted that the theft took place. The country is now in the courts begin on the first guilty. But at the same time, the officials did not call even approximate figures. They give voice to the victims and historians. In their opinion, speech can go about 300 thousands of stolen children. Tatiana Logunova visited Spain and tried to assess the scale of the tragedy.
That she will have triplets, Angela Alvarez said different doctors. Pregnancy it went well, without any problems. They began only in the hospital of Barcelona, where the woman was brought to bear. November 3, 76th Angela reported that all the doctors were wrong and she was not born triplets, and two healthy boys. And the day after that one of them died.
Angela Alvarez, the victim:
I didn’t understand what was going on. Okay, made a mistake with the triplets, they were accurate and reliable surveys as they are now. But why the second Continue reading
So true. You became the parents of adorable creatures with huge eyes and cute curls. Increasingly, however, think: angelic appearance girls – this is not the road to life. Baby needs consistent education, she should know the rules of behavior in society and the basics of etiquette. So where to start to bring this little lady?
First of all, with yourself. No matter how exquisite children’s teachers and psychologists in the invention of new methods of working with children, still to this day there is no more effective education than the influence of their own example. Mom maybe an hour telling my daughter that the people around you need to respect. But if after this highly moral notation together they go to the store and she will see how the mother pushes the other and goes to the checkout queue – down the drain. The girl will copy this good example, because mom loves and wants to be like her. And then wonder why the child grows rude. So the rule number one: words parents need to match their actions.
Rest assured: parental example baby continuously reads – to put advertising language, 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. Girls are by nature more accurately the boys, they catch Continue reading