Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal children can be orphans.
The adopted child is not the same as your own children. A mismatch between expectations and reality that drives you insane. Especially hard is for couples, who have children of their own. In this case, the comparison of friends and foes (not in favor of the latter, of course) transforms the lives of the whole family into a nightmare.
Love nonnative, and in addition the “difficult” child as your own is never easy. To do this, the adoptive parents will have to seriously work on myself and very much aware.
This is very different children
Your children were born in an atmosphere of love. And for many orphans “happy” childhood is associated with hunger, drunken debauchery parents and the beatings. You spoiled their kids with toys and sweets. And these crumbs fell asleep not cozy in the nursery and in the common room of the orphanage, they learned how to steal and cheat to survive. In addition, in dysfunctional families Continue reading
Many older people are faced with a situation that their adult son or daughter, whom they raised with such effort and difficulty, not has for him no respect and gratitude. If you ask people what is the reason for their negative attitude towards the mother and father, most often the answer will be the same for everybody: “They are evil, capricious and does not understand our needs.” Yes, older people tend to grumble and Express themselves intolerant of young people. But grumpy parents of the children also need to respect, and treat them with gratitude. Trouble lonely old people, which left the children is not in their nature, and their errors in the education of their children since childhood. They are unable to instill in their children respect for elders because of the lack of the approximate relationship to the parents. No matter what your parents, all people should remember the Golden rule: the best education is by example. If the parents when a child arguing with their parents resent them and shout at them, that same attitude to be expected in old age. The older the child, the harder it is to instill in him respect for elders. Under 5 years of age for a child no matter the age of a person, he can play Continue reading
On how well thought out placement of furniture in the apartment depends not only aesthetic perception of the interior as a whole, but the ease of living in this room. Cluttered furniture place looks untidy, even if the environment consists entirely of rare antique copies. Harmoniously have the house looks bright, spacious and functional.
How to arrange furniture
When removed the largest pieces of furniture, to decide how to arrange the furniture in the room becomes a lot easier. First of all, it should not interfere with the movement of the room. Opening doors and Windows can not cling or kick the furniture or hindered from opening cabinets, chests of drawers and sideboards. If the center of the room stands a table, then the chairs should be free to move and not to disturb neighbors. Properly placed furniture freely opened and closed, the drawers slide out without disturbing the movement.
Table lamps and floor lamps for comfortable reading should be located to the left of the seated person and this fact should also be provided during the formation of the interior.
How to arrange furniture Feng Shui
Harmony will be restored and the room will be normal. Also according to Chinese tradition the mirror on the way qi reflects it back.
Much attention is paid to how correctly Continue reading