For starters, understand for yourself what lies in your children blame YOU. Yes, it is you, not the school, kindergarten, bad company… Here, for example: your baby is four years old, you come for a visit to aunt Alla that treats you pickles. The child turns away, not wants, says: “Tasteless!” You Chipita: “what! Aunt Alla cooks so well! Don’t talk nonsense!” Next time a son or daughter to his (her) not abused, will not be to say “tasteless” and begin to praise what he doesn’t like, but you or someone else will be pleased to listen to his “reasonable speech”. You parents are asked to come to the phone and say that they’re not home? I have been asked. I went and lied. You scolded twos? And berate me. What did you do to about these twos’t know? We are two guys from the diary tried to “withdraw” with the help of various chemicals or accurately ripped out pages.
The reasons children lie perfectly wrote the psychologist O. Yurchenko in his book “the truth about children’s lies, or what parents need to know young liars”.
Children lie because:
– parents like to invent, facilitating a life half-truths and insincerity;
– there is a lack of attention and warmth from their parents;
– children Continue reading
The history of the first tales probably millennia long time and this tradition survived until now, it has meaning and practical use. Psychologists, by the way, this usefulness was proven quite a while ago. The influence of fairy tales in child development , competent in their opinion, it is difficult to overestimate: they are necessary and important as a part of the correct moral and aesthetic identity formation.
According to experts, to tell tales baby properly, that is, taking into account the child’s age, emotional warehouse, mood and, of course, listening to his preferences and habits. However, blindly go about the child is not worth it: if your child insists on 10th double tale about Kolobok, your primary task is to interest the child a new theme and colorful characters. Otherwise, the educational component of the process will go in vain.
The influence of fairy tales in child development — Late, early, or it’s time?
The correct answer to the question: “at what age we should start to tell tales” does not exist. Every parent is addressing the issue individually. Today, paying tribute to fashionable psychological currents, many moms practice the listening and the telling of tales baby even during its embryonic development. A kind of logic in such actions are present: Continue reading
We are all children of their parents. We trust them with early childhood – because they raised us and cared for us. Over time, many and become parents themselves, and are surprised to find what it is hard work. But understanding that we are the ones, previous and often have not ended the relationship – for example, mother-daughter time.
With a high probability will not “adjust” to the new realities, and to rebuild completely. The girl grew up, the mother persists – where the roots of this conflict and how it is properly resolved?
Difficult period of growing up
Maturing sons is relatively easier, but not softer. Girls tend to agree with mom, or at least not to conflict once again. But the children quite dramatically declare their own independence and isolation. Therefore, the question “how to build a mother relationship with adult daughter?” is much sharper than in the relationship “son – father”.
The worst thing that you can think of, and that certainly will affect the entire life of girls, the future women are defending their “maturity”. The right to be themselves, to have their own beliefs and causes quarrels, complex relationships grown daughters with my mom. How to establish a mother’s relationship with adult daughter, if both sides persist?
5-7 years. Continue reading