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How to stop comparing their own and others

Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal children can be orphans.

The adopted child is not the same as your own children. A mismatch between expectations and reality that drives you insane. Especially hard is for couples, who have children of their own. In this case, the comparison of friends and foes (not in favor of the latter, of course) transforms the lives of the whole family into a nightmare.

Love nonnative, and in addition the “difficult” child as your own is never easy. To do this, the adoptive parents will have to seriously work on myself and very much aware.

This is very different children

Your children were born in an atmosphere of love. And for many orphans “happy” childhood is associated with hunger, drunken debauchery parents and the beatings. You spoiled their kids with toys and sweets. And these crumbs fell asleep not cozy in the nursery and in the common room of the orphanage, they learned how to steal and cheat to survive. In addition, in dysfunctional families Continue reading

Harmful to children computer games?

It is clear that games games strife. Four-year-old, rubaiya in “counter strike”, cause most adults are almost the same feelings as if he smoked or drank beer. (Though at desire it is possible and to find favor: say, kid trains your reaction and healthy sports rage.) But there are also special children’s computer games: developing logical thinking, ability to analyze, vocabulary, visual memory, ear training, coordination of movements; teaching reading, mathematics, drawing, languages, traffic rules and behavior in society. and so on and so forth. In General, promise a lot of “Goodies” that I want to immediately run out and buy, otherwise you will not see the child a decent education. However, among the specialist children’s doctors, teachers, psychologists — many opponents of children’s computer games than supporters. If you list the pros and cons, it will turn out so. Against: damage to the eyes and spine, computer radiation, the load on the psyche, addictive. For: the child quickly learns to read, count, acquires computer skills; everything is good in moderation; and in terms of vision and light TV is much more harmful than the computer. Now details.

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Guidelines to parents on the development of independence in children

The problem of educating the independence of preschool children has become a subject of research of many scientific disciplines, primarily, pedagogy and psychology. Currently teachers and psychologists revealed various possibilities of the family and the kindergarten in the education of the independence of children. It is therefore very important influence in the field of education, to increase knowledge and skills of parents in the education of independence. To this end it is necessary to systematically acquaint parents with the content and methods of education of independence in children of this age, with the requirements of the kindergarten to develop skills of independence. In addition, they need to meet with different levels of manifestation of autonomy in children, psychological-pedagogical and organizational conditions and methods of work with them.

Thus, the necessary conditions that ensure the efficiency of formation autonomy in the application in children data from differentiated groups according to the level of its manifestation, are:

1. the use of special theoretical approaches to the development Continue reading

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