Not a simple question. Even adults sometimes don’t hear the first time. After all, about men, and about the staff often hear such complaints: “I talk and talk, but as the wall peas. Here’s how another man to say?” But, maybe these adults have grown from children who have not learned to hear the first time? Try to teach this child still stands.
The algorithm is as follows:
1. First of all, make sure that you listen carefully
It happens that the child is absorbed in play or work and really can’t hear. By the way, I when writing a text or develop a training program that is so focused on process that is totally off from reality. So I at this point have heard, you either have very very loudly to call, or to touch. The second option is nicer. Don’t like loud noises. Therefore itself in a similar situation too, I put my hand on his shoulder, drawing attention to yourself, even a little to himself to deploy. And just making sure that I managed to be in the spotlight, beginning to speak.
Have you ever talked with a young child who really wants to tell you something important? Which is already drowning in her own words, Continue reading
Step by step instructions
Recently we received a letter from the mother of a girl, in which she complained that her daughter was not sure myself: afraid to Express themselves in school, avoiding initiatives.
The problem described by our reader, is not new. Many parents face this: the child is closed, insecure, difficult to converge with classmates, defends his point of view. And further such insecurities can go into complexes, complicate social adaptation, will prevent him from showing his skills and find his place in life.
How can parents help the child?
Step one. Exploration
First of all need to understand the causes of uncertainty, realize, and for this purpose to analyze the situations in which it manifests itself. You should make a list of situations in which the child is experiencing difficulty. For example, he is unsure of the new situation, Blendable in an unfamiliar team, afraid to make contact with a stranger. I personally know of several examples where an insurmountable obstacle is to buy bread in the tent, because the child is shy to speak with the seller.
Or obedient child becomes aggressive when parents come to visit. He’s surly, snarling, behaves shocking, runs away, Continue reading
“During the year you should tolerate bullying.” – such was the demand classmates to 13-year-old Denis Sverdlov
– I in this school do not go! Me bullied there! – arriving home on January 19, told her parents Denis.
On the face of a boy “flaunted” a huge bruise. When the son took off his shirt, mom gasped as bruises and scratches were all over his body.
In the Tver school № 40, in class 7a, Dennis came in September, before that I studied in Nelidovo. Two years lived with grandparents while parents who moved to Tver, solved the housing problem. The boy was walking to school in high spirits, tried to study well. Then he suddenly got bruises.
I immediately suspected that something was wrong, but the son for all inquiries answered in monosyllables: “Fell”. Mom teen Natalia is still not at ease. – Then he opened the ulcer (although in the past such problems were not), began to increase blood pressure up to 160! The doctors said due to nerves.
Meanwhile, the teenager regularly come from school with bruises. My parents had an inkling that beat him there. Unable to stand, father Dennis went to school, gathered all the boys and tried Continue reading