Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal children can be orphans.
The adopted child is not the same as your own children. A mismatch between expectations and reality that drives you insane. Especially hard is for couples, who have children of their own. In this case, the comparison of friends and foes (not in favor of the latter, of course) transforms the lives of the whole family into a nightmare.
Love nonnative, and in addition the “difficult” child as your own is never easy. To do this, the adoptive parents will have to seriously work on myself and very much aware.
This is very different children
Your children were born in an atmosphere of love. And for many orphans “happy” childhood is associated with hunger, drunken debauchery parents and the beatings. You spoiled their kids with toys and sweets. And these crumbs fell asleep not cozy in the nursery and in the common room of the orphanage, they learned how to steal and cheat to survive. In addition, in dysfunctional families Continue reading
We are all children of their parents. We trust them with early childhood – because they raised us and cared for us. Over time, many and become parents themselves, and are surprised to find what it is hard work. But understanding that we are the ones, previous and often have not ended the relationship – for example, mother-daughter time.
With a high probability will not “adjust” to the new realities, and to rebuild completely. The girl grew up, the mother persists – where the roots of this conflict and how it is properly resolved?
Difficult period of growing up
Maturing sons is relatively easier, but not softer. Girls tend to agree with mom, or at least not to conflict once again. But the children quite dramatically declare their own independence and isolation. Therefore, the question “how to build a mother relationship with adult daughter?” is much sharper than in the relationship “son – father”.
The worst thing that you can think of, and that certainly will affect the entire life of girls, the future women are defending their “maturity”. The right to be themselves, to have their own beliefs and causes quarrels, complex relationships grown daughters with my mom. How to establish a mother’s relationship with adult daughter, if both sides persist?
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Chapter 1. Theoretical approaches to the problem of aggression in adolescents from disadvantaged families
1.1 the Psychological characteristics of adolescence
1.2 the Problem of aggressiveness of personality in modern psychology. Adolescent aggressiveness
1.3 Psychological problems of adolescents from families with alcohol dependence
2.1 Description of research methodology
2.2 the results of the study
The list of references
The problem of aggression is one of the most significant problems of modern psychology.
Alarming is the growing number of children with deviant behavior, manifested in antisocial behavior (alcoholism, drug abuse, violation of public order, hooliganism, vandalism, etc.). Increased demonstrative and defiant in relation to adult behavior. In extreme forms began to show violence and aggression. Dramatically increased crime among young people. Compared with the recent past, an increasing number of serious crimes, the mind fixes an increase of conflicts and cases Continue reading