In the minds of most of us, the word manipulation often causes negative emotions.
Many might say: manipulation in communication is deception, lies, submission of knowingly false information.
But this concept is much broader. Let’s try to understand: is it good or bad?
That there is manipulation in communication?
This is the impact of technology on the unconscious part of the human psyche for the purpose of obtaining the benefits of achieving the goal. We can say that it is the desire of the manipulator to control another person (thoughts, actions), without his knowledge.
Manipulation techniques used in communication
Here is a rough classification:
manipulation in business (interaction partners for the purpose of entering into the contract)
manipulation in the team
manipulation in the family (whether spouses or relatives),
manipulation in education («parent-child»),
manipulation in the media (imposing opinions through Newspapers, television),
manipulation in public life (politics).
Every once in his life manipulated in dealing with people, with the aim of obtaining some benefit, whether it be parents, lover, colleagues or friends. People in communicating with people sticking to its specific purpose (not always selfish).
“Why daddy ?” asked my daughter when she was 7 years old. “Without him you would not exist. And yet he cares about us, that we were fine,” I replied, and she thought.
Modern woman strives for autonomy and independence. The experience of grandmothers, mothers, girlfriends teaches that men cannot be counted. They are killed in war, they drink, go to other women, change their sexual orientation, their gambling addiction sucks… In the mind there is the image of men as something unstable, and a desire to avoid the mistakes of the older generation when the hostess was carrying the entire burden of care for yourself. “It is better to raise one than with this…”
How can that be? On the one hand, you want a reliable and faithful husband, a beautiful harmonious relationship, a loving father to his children. But, on the other hand, the parental experience of family or close friends, finally, my own first experience of the marital relationship scandals, lack of understanding, the threat of divorce is not an opportunity to relax and just enjoy family life. The woman at the slightest misunderstanding begins to doubt her choice as to the perfect father for the child.
Can a woman of the XXI century to be for baby and mom, and dad in one person? Let’s see what loses a child, if his life disappear father, Continue reading
On how well thought out placement of furniture in the apartment depends not only aesthetic perception of the interior as a whole, but the ease of living in this room. Cluttered furniture place looks untidy, even if the environment consists entirely of rare antique copies. Harmoniously have the house looks bright, spacious and functional.
How to arrange furniture
When removed the largest pieces of furniture, to decide how to arrange the furniture in the room becomes a lot easier. First of all, it should not interfere with the movement of the room. Opening doors and Windows can not cling or kick the furniture or hindered from opening cabinets, chests of drawers and sideboards. If the center of the room stands a table, then the chairs should be free to move and not to disturb neighbors. Properly placed furniture freely opened and closed, the drawers slide out without disturbing the movement.
Table lamps and floor lamps for comfortable reading should be located to the left of the seated person and this fact should also be provided during the formation of the interior.
How to arrange furniture Feng Shui
Harmony will be restored and the room will be normal. Also according to Chinese tradition the mirror on the way qi reflects it back.
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