How to stop comparing their own and others

Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal children can be orphans.

The adopted child is not the same as your own children. A mismatch between expectations and reality that drives you insane. Especially hard is for couples, who have children of their own. In this case, the comparison of friends and foes (not in favor of the latter, of course) transforms the lives of the whole family into a nightmare.

Love nonnative, and in addition the “difficult” child as your own is never easy. To do this, the adoptive parents will have to seriously work on myself and very much aware.

This is very different children

Your children were born in an atmosphere of love. And for many orphans “happy” childhood is associated with hunger, drunken debauchery parents and the beatings. You spoiled their kids with toys and sweets. And these crumbs fell asleep not cozy in the nursery and in the common room of the orphanage, they learned how to steal and cheat to survive. In addition, in dysfunctional families Continue reading

The Influence of fairy tales in child development

The history of the first tales probably millennia long time and this tradition survived until now, it has meaning and practical use. Psychologists, by the way, this usefulness was proven quite a while ago. The influence of fairy tales in child development , competent in their opinion, it is difficult to overestimate: they are necessary and important as a part of the correct moral and aesthetic identity formation.

According to experts, to tell tales baby properly, that is, taking into account the child’s age, emotional warehouse, mood and, of course, listening to his preferences and habits. However, blindly go about the child is not worth it: if your child insists on 10th double tale about Kolobok, your primary task is to interest the child a new theme and colorful characters. Otherwise, the educational component of the process will go in vain.

The influence of fairy tales in child development — Late, early, or it’s time?

The correct answer to the question: “at what age we should start to tell tales” does not exist. Every parent is addressing the issue individually. Today, paying tribute to fashionable psychological currents, many moms practice the listening and the telling of tales baby even during its embryonic development. A kind of logic in such actions are present: Continue reading

Manipulation Techniques in communication

In the minds of most of us, the word manipulation often causes negative emotions.

Many might say: manipulation in communication is deception, lies, submission of knowingly false information.

But this concept is much broader. Let’s try to understand: is it good or bad?

That there is manipulation in communication?

This is the impact of technology on the unconscious part of the human psyche for the purpose of obtaining the benefits of achieving the goal. We can say that it is the desire of the manipulator to control another person (thoughts, actions), without his knowledge.

Manipulation techniques used in communication

Here is a rough classification:

manipulation in business (interaction partners for the purpose of entering into the contract)

manipulation in the team

manipulation in the family (whether spouses or relatives),

manipulation in education («parent-child»),

manipulation in the media (imposing opinions through Newspapers, television),

manipulation in public life (politics).

Every once in his life manipulated in dealing with people, with the aim of obtaining some benefit, whether it be parents, lover, colleagues or friends. People in communicating with people sticking to its specific purpose (not always selfish).

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