She was lucky: they were her real parents gave her love, family and home. Writer, blogger, mom remembers my story helps us to understand the feelings of those who are adopted, and the answers to those questions that we don’t always dare to ask.
My experience – this is only my experience. It is clear that all of us who foster children, is different, everyone has their experiences, their feelings – here is the whole palette of emotions from black to white. I do not in any way speak on behalf of all. But I think we each had the opportunity to speak.
The first months of his life I spent in the car. One day mother left me alone and never came back. I was a year, when I was adopted. So I found my real family. Usually others may have many questions, if they know that I was adopted. I heard these questions over the years as I can remember. And I would like to give, finally, the answers. About everything and everyone at once.
1. Orphans in life does not look like orphans with Golden curls that you see in the movies. They’re just kids. They went through trials that many find it difficult even to imagine. They need Continue reading
Children are flesh and our blood, we, the parents connected with them a deep inner Union. The happiness of children is our happiness, and sorrow because of illness, death and children’s defects for a parent’s heart is the biggest sorrow. To want their children well-being and happiness is as natural as wanting them to himself.
But, unfortunately, it happens that parents care only about temporal, and material well-being of children, seeking all possible means to have their child certainly has achieved in this life.
It is important to take care of obtaining God’s help to his children and pray for them to God. Parent prayer is the most faithful and powerful means of consolidating the happiness of children. There are many examples of how our faith, sincere, heartfelt prayer invisible and parents unexpectedly sends grace of God help their children: healing from sickness, success in learning, separation from the temptations and enticements of this world, an extract from the destructive abyss mired in destructive passions and vices. It helps to remind You about the prayer feat of mother of St. Augustine Monica. St. Theophan the recluse was advised by one of the grieving mother: “Remember the mother of St. Augustine. He wept, prayed, prayed! I begged and cried Continue reading