Babies can’t tell their moms and dads what they want, or what they hurt and the only way to contact parents is crying. Crying is for babies primary means of communication with others, it’s a Wake-up call about the necessary assistance and need to know what is the cause of the crying and help your baby.
Reason for crying is not enough, and the baby never cries without reason. The cry of a baby is always different and depends on what was troubling him, and crying from pain in the tummy, for example, very similar to weeping caused inconvenience, boredom and loneliness.
Gradually parents begin to identify causes of crying your baby. We will try to understand the underlying reasons for a child’s crying.
Probable causes of crying
Hunger . Crying due to hunger is the main factor crying baby and soothe it easier. Food is the most important need of the baby, so when your baby is hungry, to comfort him the only food is milk. Recently the doctors pediatricians recommend to feed your baby on demand and not to build any particular mode of feeding .
A hungry child first cries and stops, waiting for the result and if it is not understood, begins to scream again, but compassionate, demanding and shrill. Continue reading
In psychology found a wonderful way of assisting the other party in cases where it is difficult to cope with the situation, to experience failure, to Express not quite clear feelings or thoughts. He called the technique of active listening.
Ears on top
With the active hearing your task – to understand the speaker and let him know about it. When we say “understand”, we mean not only the content words, but also his emotional experience.
To solve both of these tasks helps the next appointment – to repeat what is said by the interlocutor, and thus to call it a feeling or a state.
Reproducing the contact said, you can repeat a single word, an entire phrase or use a “paraphrase”, that is, to convey the meaning in other words.
For example, your daughter-the schoolgirl said: “I wouldn’t wear these shoes because they are stupid carrot color and me are all in the class to laugh”. Your answer might be: “You don’t like these shoes because you’re afraid that because of their bright colors in school you’ll be laughed at”.
Why is it necessary?
If your answer is accurate, the person will feel that you have joined his experiences. Continue reading
Spain shocked the scandal with the theft of hundreds of thousands of children
Stolen children in Spain. Here scandal is gaining momentum associated with the theft of children in hospitals across the country. The Spaniards learned that for several decades, starting with the 40’s until the 90’s, doctors, nurses and nuns took away children from their parents and given up for adoption or sold. The Spanish authorities have admitted that the theft took place. The country is now in the courts begin on the first guilty. But at the same time, the officials did not call even approximate figures. They give voice to the victims and historians. In their opinion, speech can go about 300 thousands of stolen children. Tatiana Logunova visited Spain and tried to assess the scale of the tragedy.
That she will have triplets, Angela Alvarez said different doctors. Pregnancy it went well, without any problems. They began only in the hospital of Barcelona, where the woman was brought to bear. November 3, 76th Angela reported that all the doctors were wrong and she was not born triplets, and two healthy boys. And the day after that one of them died.
Angela Alvarez, the victim:
I didn’t understand what was going on. Okay, made a mistake with the triplets, they were accurate and reliable surveys as they are now. But why the second Continue reading