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How to stop comparing their own and others

Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal children can be orphans.

The adopted child is not the same as your own children. A mismatch between expectations and reality that drives you insane. Especially hard is for couples, who have children of their own. In this case, the comparison of friends and foes (not in favor of the latter, of course) transforms the lives of the whole family into a nightmare.

Love nonnative, and in addition the “difficult” child as your own is never easy. To do this, the adoptive parents will have to seriously work on myself and very much aware.

This is very different children

Your children were born in an atmosphere of love. And for many orphans “happy” childhood is associated with hunger, drunken debauchery parents and the beatings. You spoiled their kids with toys and sweets. And these crumbs fell asleep not cozy in the nursery and in the common room of the orphanage, they learned how to steal and cheat to survive. In addition, in dysfunctional families Continue reading

Harmful to children computer games?

It is clear that games games strife. Four-year-old, rubaiya in “counter strike”, cause most adults are almost the same feelings as if he smoked or drank beer. (Though at desire it is possible and to find favor: say, kid trains your reaction and healthy sports rage.) But there are also special children’s computer games: developing logical thinking, ability to analyze, vocabulary, visual memory, ear training, coordination of movements; teaching reading, mathematics, drawing, languages, traffic rules and behavior in society. and so on and so forth. In General, promise a lot of “Goodies” that I want to immediately run out and buy, otherwise you will not see the child a decent education. However, among the specialist children’s doctors, teachers, psychologists — many opponents of children’s computer games than supporters. If you list the pros and cons, it will turn out so. Against: damage to the eyes and spine, computer radiation, the load on the psyche, addictive. For: the child quickly learns to read, count, acquires computer skills; everything is good in moderation; and in terms of vision and light TV is much more harmful than the computer. Now details.

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The Problem of aggression in adolescents from dysfunctional families


Chapter 1. Theoretical approaches to the problem of aggression in adolescents from disadvantaged families

1.1 the Psychological characteristics of adolescence

1.2 the Problem of aggressiveness of personality in modern psychology. Adolescent aggressiveness

1.3 Psychological problems of adolescents from families with alcohol dependence

2.1 Description of research methodology

2.2 the results of the study


The list of references

The app


The problem of aggression is one of the most significant problems of modern psychology.

Alarming is the growing number of children with deviant behavior, manifested in antisocial behavior (alcoholism, drug abuse, violation of public order, hooliganism, vandalism, etc.). Increased demonstrative and defiant in relation to adult behavior. In extreme forms began to show violence and aggression. Dramatically increased crime among young people. Compared with the recent past, an increasing number of serious crimes, the mind fixes an increase of conflicts and cases Continue reading

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