In this article we will concentrate on this topic as a divorce. if you have a child. Should I spoil the life of a child due to the fact that the parents had a fight.
Nowadays nobody can give a guarantee that it will pass so many years, and the couple will die one day, having lived a long, happy family life. Marriages are made in heaven but broken up very prosaic-on the ground among broken shards of a once beautiful love and lost dreams. Causes of destruction of the family very much, they can be associated with the character of the spouses, relations with relatives (especially parents), friends, distribution of functions and roles in the family, the intervention independent of someone’s will circumstances, such as illness or death of any family member. If the family has not had time to have children, then divorce takes place, as a rule, less painful for the couple. If you have children –they are the first, who deeply and sincerely suffering from the breakdown of relationships between parents. For children growing up in an intact family, the presence of mom and dad, sleeping in the same bed, eating at the same table or sitting on the same sofa while watching TV, this phenomenon is familiar and soothing his soul. He says to himself: okay, I’m home, all of us together. It creates a certain steady normal way of life –all in the mind, I will come to school or kindergarten. I come home and I’ll Continue reading
Why not just come up with our kids! Their imagination would envy even the storyteller!
Surely all parents are already faced with the first fictional or embellished stories of their tots. But there comes that moment when you realize that the child is no longer just dreams . and develops her skills liar-professional.
Then the parents begin to worry, not knowing how to wean their child from such nasty habits. Often we do not think that it is our attitude, education or reaction to children’s lie exacerbates the problem.
Why the child is lying
If the younger sibling was more likely to deceive their parents, most likely, he ceased to trust them, or just afraid of the negative reactions to the offense. It is very important to know that you are not going to scold him. Express dissatisfaction with the act of the child, not them as a person.
Scientists have found that 4-year-old child lying approximately every two hours, and six-year – every 90 minutes. False “from the mouth of Babes” appears in 3 years, and 4-6 years children reach this perfection.
I’m afraid of you!
The most common cause of children’s lies – the fear of a parent yelling or punishment Continue reading
All children love to draw. Who on the Wallpaper leaves his art, who for dad’s documents, who on the walls of the Elevator. Some children love your drawings to give to those who they are at this moment impressed, and some of his drawings comcat and throw away…
Another child draws a long, carefully stroking parts and features all the characters in the story. And someone drawing competition: times – two and you’re done! One wishes in each figure to show the real colors of paints, and the other chooses one color and only draws them all their history. There are fans to store their pictures, collect them and will be going back to finish. And there are children who long to draw something, anyone not showing the content, and then take – and will cover a dark color on top, so that absolutely no one saw.
We can safely say that children’s art is not a simple task. All of this action, including the drawing process, the subject selection of materials is a reflection of the inner world of the child. By drawing the child reports about his health, about the possible fears about the mood Continue reading