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How to stop comparing their own and others

Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal children can be orphans.

The adopted child is not the same as your own children. A mismatch between expectations and reality that drives you insane. Especially hard is for couples, who have children of their own. In this case, the comparison of friends and foes (not in favor of the latter, of course) transforms the lives of the whole family into a nightmare.

Love nonnative, and in addition the “difficult” child as your own is never easy. To do this, the adoptive parents will have to seriously work on myself and very much aware.

This is very different children

Your children were born in an atmosphere of love. And for many orphans “happy” childhood is associated with hunger, drunken debauchery parents and the beatings. You spoiled their kids with toys and sweets. And these crumbs fell asleep not cozy in the nursery and in the common room of the orphanage, they learned how to steal and cheat to survive. In addition, in dysfunctional families Continue reading

Pedagogical deontology

Pedagogical deontology is the science about the professional behavior of the teacher, shall develop rules and norms of behavior of the teacher in the sphere of his professional activity.

Pedagogical communication is an effective means of organizing the educational process.

Pedagogical communication is professional communication between teacher and students in the classroom and outside of it that have specific teaching functions, and aimed at creating a favorable psychological climate as well as other kinds of psychological optimization of training activities and the relations between teacher and students and within student team.

Styles of cool attitude to the team:

1. Stable positive stable positive emotional attitude towards the children, care, business reaction to the deficiencies in their academic performance and behavior, a calm, even tone in communication.

2. Passive-positive – not clearly expressed positive emotional setting in relation to children. Dryness treatment, formal tone, only demanding and no-nonsense attitude.

3. Unstable – contextual relations in General positive emotional setting, the teacher falls under the authority of his moods and feelings, Continue reading

Why the child is lying

For starters, understand for yourself what lies in your children blame YOU. Yes, it is you, not the school, kindergarten, bad company… Here, for example: your baby is four years old, you come for a visit to aunt Alla that treats you pickles. The child turns away, not wants, says: “Tasteless!” You Chipita: “what! Aunt Alla cooks so well! Don’t talk nonsense!” Next time a son or daughter to his (her) not abused, will not be to say “tasteless” and begin to praise what he doesn’t like, but you or someone else will be pleased to listen to his “reasonable speech”. You parents are asked to come to the phone and say that they’re not home? I have been asked. I went and lied. You scolded twos? And berate me. What did you do to about these twos’t know? We are two guys from the diary tried to “withdraw” with the help of various chemicals or accurately ripped out pages.

The reasons children lie perfectly wrote the psychologist O. Yurchenko in his book “the truth about children’s lies, or what parents need to know young liars”.

Children lie because:

– parents like to invent, facilitating a life half-truths and insincerity;

– there is a lack of attention and warmth from their parents;

– children Continue reading

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