In this article we will concentrate on this topic as a divorce. if you have a child. Should I spoil the life of a child due to the fact that the parents had a fight.
Nowadays nobody can give a guarantee that it will pass so many years, and the couple will die one day, having lived a long, happy family life. Marriages are made in heaven but broken up very prosaic-on the ground among broken shards of a once beautiful love and lost dreams. Causes of destruction of the family very much, they can be associated with the character of the spouses, relations with relatives (especially parents), friends, distribution of functions and roles in the family, the intervention independent of someone’s will circumstances, such as illness or death of any family member. If the family has not had time to have children, then divorce takes place, as a rule, less painful for the couple. If you have children –they are the first, who deeply and sincerely suffering from the breakdown of relationships between parents. For children growing up in an intact family, the presence of mom and dad, sleeping in the same bed, eating at the same table or sitting on the same sofa while watching TV, this phenomenon is familiar and soothing his soul. He says to himself: okay, I’m home, all of us together. It creates a certain steady normal way of life –all in the mind, I will come to school or kindergarten. I come home and I’ll Continue reading
Of course, for a child of any age need attention and love of the father. As son and daughter.
The boy who feels no father’s support, takes the model of behavior of the mother. Dullnesses a boy can not only turn into a “sissy”, but in adult life be deprived of a normal family. Because in order to become a real man, the son should have a role model to know how to behave like a man. All this boy can give a loving and attentive father.
Girls usually look for in my elected representatives are the features who they liked in the fathers. I.e. dad becomes a kind of “strap”, which to raise your power. Father helps daughter to realize that she is beautiful and smart. These compliments father daughter will remember for a long time.
For kids it is very important to see and hear close by, a mother and father. Studies have shown that children whose fathers participated in their education active participation, more sociable and calm. So dad often has to take the child in his arms, talking to him.
Many men are afraid to take small children on his hands, in this situation, the mother must show and explain how to properly handle the child.
It happens that a man is jealous of his mate-to-child, and 5% of young fathers, as scientists have found, is postpartum Continue reading
Many older people are faced with a situation that their adult son or daughter, whom they raised with such effort and difficulty, not has for him no respect and gratitude. If you ask people what is the reason for their negative attitude towards the mother and father, most often the answer will be the same for everybody: “They are evil, capricious and does not understand our needs.” Yes, older people tend to grumble and Express themselves intolerant of young people. But grumpy parents of the children also need to respect, and treat them with gratitude. Trouble lonely old people, which left the children is not in their nature, and their errors in the education of their children since childhood. They are unable to instill in their children respect for elders because of the lack of the approximate relationship to the parents. No matter what your parents, all people should remember the Golden rule: the best education is by example. If the parents when a child arguing with their parents resent them and shout at them, that same attitude to be expected in old age. The older the child, the harder it is to instill in him respect for elders. Under 5 years of age for a child no matter the age of a person, he can play Continue reading