Adopted children

She was lucky: they were her real parents gave her love, family and home. Writer, blogger, mom remembers my story helps us to understand the feelings of those who are adopted, and the answers to those questions that we don’t always dare to ask.

My experience – this is only my experience. It is clear that all of us who foster children, is different, everyone has their experiences, their feelings – here is the whole palette of emotions from black to white. I do not in any way speak on behalf of all. But I think we each had the opportunity to speak.

The first months of his life I spent in the car. One day mother left me alone and never came back. I was a year, when I was adopted. So I found my real family. Usually others may have many questions, if they know that I was adopted. I heard these questions over the years as I can remember. And I would like to give, finally, the answers. About everything and everyone at once.

1. Orphans in life does not look like orphans with Golden curls that you see in the movies. They’re just kids. They went through trials that many find it difficult even to imagine. They need Continue reading

Bad habits

More often it begins in childhood, at least — in his youth, when, hidden from adults and imitating them, you are in the company of the same guys for the first time, drank a glass of beer or a glass of vodka or wine. Warmth spreads through your body, heart beating stronger, you’re having fun, overweening, but pretty quickly you have to fully “pay” for short intoxicating pleasure, and in the best case you pay headache, lethargy and a bad mood. For some it is already the first acquaintance with alcohol becomes their evil fate.

In his younger years, the body quickly gets used to the poison, and, look, here’s the young man or woman and enslaved by his Majesty the Alcohol. Satabase it quickly and thoroughly. Sometimes, people drink to the third, and then it became a habit, appear absenteeism at work, followed by the dismissal — and here he is patient narcological dispensary…

Alcohol is a universal poison. It affects all organs and systems of the body, lowers its defenses. But especially affects nervous and cardiovascular systems. So, drinking too much alcohol can develop alcoholic psychosis: delirium tremens, alcoholic hallucinosis, delirium of jealousy and others. They are accompanied Continue reading

Prayers for children

Children are flesh and our blood, we, the parents connected with them a deep inner Union. The happiness of children is our happiness, and sorrow because of illness, death and children’s defects for a parent’s heart is the biggest sorrow. To want their children well-being and happiness is as natural as wanting them to himself.

But, unfortunately, it happens that parents care only about temporal, and material well-being of children, seeking all possible means to have their child certainly has achieved in this life.

It is important to take care of obtaining God’s help to his children and pray for them to God. Parent prayer is the most faithful and powerful means of consolidating the happiness of children. There are many examples of how our faith, sincere, heartfelt prayer invisible and parents unexpectedly sends grace of God help their children: healing from sickness, success in learning, separation from the temptations and enticements of this world, an extract from the destructive abyss mired in destructive passions and vices. It helps to remind You about the prayer feat of mother of St. Augustine Monica. St. Theophan the recluse was advised by one of the grieving mother: “Remember the mother of St. Augustine. He wept, prayed, prayed! I begged and cried Continue reading

The problem of the development of thinking
According to piaget, development is carried out from the individual. to socialized, and the child is impervious to experience. Thinking is seen as a biological process, intelligence – as a…

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How to stop comparing their own and others
Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal…

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Rules of etiquette for well-mannered girls
So true. You became the parents of adorable creatures with huge eyes and cute curls. Increasingly, however, think: angelic appearance girls – this is not the road to life. Baby…

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