Dad becomes a dad

“Why daddy ?” asked my daughter when she was 7 years old. “Without him you would not exist. And yet he cares about us, that we were fine,” I replied, and she thought.

Modern woman strives for autonomy and independence. The experience of grandmothers, mothers, girlfriends teaches that men cannot be counted. They are killed in war, they drink, go to other women, change their sexual orientation, their gambling addiction sucks… In the mind there is the image of men as something unstable, and a desire to avoid the mistakes of the older generation when the hostess was carrying the entire burden of care for yourself. “It is better to raise one than with this…”

How can that be? On the one hand, you want a reliable and faithful husband, a beautiful harmonious relationship, a loving father to his children. But, on the other hand, the parental experience of family or close friends, finally, my own first experience of the marital relationship scandals, lack of understanding, the threat of divorce is not an opportunity to relax and just enjoy family life. The woman at the slightest misunderstanding begins to doubt her choice as to the perfect father for the child.

Can a woman of the XXI century to be for baby and mom, and dad in one person? Let’s see what loses a child, if his life disappear father, Continue reading

Bad habits

More often it begins in childhood, at least — in his youth, when, hidden from adults and imitating them, you are in the company of the same guys for the first time, drank a glass of beer or a glass of vodka or wine. Warmth spreads through your body, heart beating stronger, you’re having fun, overweening, but pretty quickly you have to fully “pay” for short intoxicating pleasure, and in the best case you pay headache, lethargy and a bad mood. For some it is already the first acquaintance with alcohol becomes their evil fate.

In his younger years, the body quickly gets used to the poison, and, look, here’s the young man or woman and enslaved by his Majesty the Alcohol. Satabase it quickly and thoroughly. Sometimes, people drink to the third, and then it became a habit, appear absenteeism at work, followed by the dismissal — and here he is patient narcological dispensary…

Alcohol is a universal poison. It affects all organs and systems of the body, lowers its defenses. But especially affects nervous and cardiovascular systems. So, drinking too much alcohol can develop alcoholic psychosis: delirium tremens, alcoholic hallucinosis, delirium of jealousy and others. They are accompanied Continue reading

Prayers for children
Children are flesh and our blood, we, the parents connected with them a deep inner Union. The happiness of children is our happiness, and sorrow because of illness, death and…

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Adopted children
She was lucky: they were her real parents gave her love, family and home. Writer, blogger, mom remembers my story helps us to understand the feelings of those who are…

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How to build a mother's relationship with adult daughter?
We are all children of their parents. We trust them with early childhood – because they raised us and cared for us. Over time, many and become parents themselves, and…

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