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How to stop comparing their own and others

Compassion and desire to help orphans often encouraged people to take the child into the family. But making documents for adoption or guardianship, it is not, how different from normal children can be orphans.

The adopted child is not the same as your own children. A mismatch between expectations and reality that drives you insane. Especially hard is for couples, who have children of their own. In this case, the comparison of friends and foes (not in favor of the latter, of course) transforms the lives of the whole family into a nightmare.

Love nonnative, and in addition the “difficult” child as your own is never easy. To do this, the adoptive parents will have to seriously work on myself and very much aware.

This is very different children

Your children were born in an atmosphere of love. And for many orphans “happy” childhood is associated with hunger, drunken debauchery parents and the beatings. You spoiled their kids with toys and sweets. And these crumbs fell asleep not cozy in the nursery and in the common room of the orphanage, they learned how to steal and cheat to survive. In addition, in dysfunctional families Continue reading

Little children

“Little kids – little troubles” – I think that any mother with a little child, will not agree with this saying. It’s the kid causes great anxiety and apprehension, causing beating faster with excitement heart of a young woman.

The connection at this time between the baby and the mother is very strong, because until recently they were one. The woman, focusing entirely on the child, sometimes even forgets about her husband. The man at this time to preserve my sanity and patience, myself to spend more time on child care, because it is very brings young parents and strengthens the relationship for years to come. The baby gets older, the mother will cease to worry, and if the man was gentle, patient, took an active part in the care of the child, the love of a woman towards her husband is doubled.

And while the child is still too young for him to avoid diathesis and other diseases is very important breastfeeding . Many experts advise mothers to breastfeed at least until the year that will help develop immunity and low susceptibility to diseases even in adulthood.

New products in the diet of the child are entered with extreme caution. You should limit the consumption of sweets. Mom needs to eat chocolate, cocoa, cheese curds, canned food, carbonated drinks, Continue reading

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