We are all children of their parents. We trust them with early childhood – because they raised us and cared for us. Over time, many and become parents themselves, and are surprised to find what it is hard work. But understanding that we are the ones, previous and often have not ended the relationship – for example, mother-daughter time.
With a high probability will not “adjust” to the new realities, and to rebuild completely. The girl grew up, the mother persists – where the roots of this conflict and how it is properly resolved?
Difficult period of growing up
Maturing sons is relatively easier, but not softer. Girls tend to agree with mom, or at least not to conflict once again. But the children quite dramatically declare their own independence and isolation. Therefore, the question “how to build a mother relationship with adult daughter?” is much sharper than in the relationship “son – father”.
The worst thing that you can think of, and that certainly will affect the entire life of girls, the future women are defending their “maturity”. The right to be themselves, to have their own beliefs and causes quarrels, complex relationships grown daughters with my mom. How to establish a mother’s relationship with adult daughter, if both sides persist?
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In the cultural environment is the formation of the personality that develops, and then, transmits its culture to succeeding generations. So, by their own laws and according to their cultural values live all ethnic groups on the planet, creating States Constitution and many other documents. Other cultures need to know and consider. Then there will be fewer misunderstandings, wars and conflicts between ethnic groups.
In this paper, we have focused on the influence of cultural environment on the formation and development of personality of a child up to 9 years. In childhood is the development of language, norms and values of culture. At this stage, the child absorbs the culture, watching her. Adults, using a system of punishments and rewards, limit its right of selection and assessment.
Culture has a profound influence on behavior, determining the socialization of children; how to dress and teach children what behavior is considered reasonable. Opportunities and the formation of the child’s behavior is determined by culture, even if this behavior is seen as determined by biological factors.
On the physical, intellectual, emotional and social growth of the individual culture in which it develops and lives, are affected to a different degree. There is a lot of evidence that the reflexes of the newborn Continue reading
” Mom, I’m scared! — with a shout and cry ran into the parent’s bedroom a little Pasha. Clinging to his mother’s breast, he babbled:
— There… dark… under the bed… terrible…
Mom put her son beside him, patted on the head, and he immediately fell asleep.
— Lisa, so not, — said in a whisper dad, Anatoly Vasiliev. — so You will want to grow up the son of a weakling and a rag. Nothing to appease his fears. Or do you want him to 18 years old slept with us in the same bed?
— what do you suggest? — offended Lisa. — to Lock him in the room — and let him cry into hysterics? You know, better to let the wuss and wuss than neurotic or schizophrenic.
— I Agree, this is also not an option. But then what to do?
— Go to sleep… Tomorrow go ask your mom. It is after all a teacher has worked all her life, have an understanding of child psychology.
The next day on a visit to Vasiliev came grandmother, Elena. After playing with his grandson and putting him for a NAP, she listened to the arguments of both parents, smiled and began her story. — Ah, youth, how I understand you. Because the problem of children’s fears faced by all parents, and my grandfather is no exception. Here you are, shreds, very afraid of strangers. Cost Continue reading