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Manipulation Techniques in communication

In the minds of most of us, the word manipulation often causes negative emotions.

Many might say: manipulation in communication is deception, lies, submission of knowingly false information.

But this concept is much broader. Let’s try to understand: is it good or bad?

That there is manipulation in communication?

This is the impact of technology on the unconscious part of the human psyche for the purpose of obtaining the benefits of achieving the goal. We can say that it is the desire of the manipulator to control another person (thoughts, actions), without his knowledge.

Manipulation techniques used in communication

Here is a rough classification:

manipulation in business (interaction partners for the purpose of entering into the contract)

manipulation in the team

manipulation in the family (whether spouses or relatives),

manipulation in education («parent-child»),

manipulation in the media (imposing opinions through Newspapers, television),

manipulation in public life (politics).

Every once in his life manipulated in dealing with people, with the aim of obtaining some benefit, whether it be parents, lover, colleagues or friends. People in communicating with people sticking to its specific purpose (not always selfish).

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Dad becomes a dad

“Why daddy ?” asked my daughter when she was 7 years old. “Without him you would not exist. And yet he cares about us, that we were fine,” I replied, and she thought.

Modern woman strives for autonomy and independence. The experience of grandmothers, mothers, girlfriends teaches that men cannot be counted. They are killed in war, they drink, go to other women, change their sexual orientation, their gambling addiction sucks… In the mind there is the image of men as something unstable, and a desire to avoid the mistakes of the older generation when the hostess was carrying the entire burden of care for yourself. “It is better to raise one than with this…”

How can that be? On the one hand, you want a reliable and faithful husband, a beautiful harmonious relationship, a loving father to his children. But, on the other hand, the parental experience of family or close friends, finally, my own first experience of the marital relationship scandals, lack of understanding, the threat of divorce is not an opportunity to relax and just enjoy family life. The woman at the slightest misunderstanding begins to doubt her choice as to the perfect father for the child.

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How to become foster parents

Foster family – this is a family where the parents or individuals (foster parents) perform duties on education of children under foster family approved by the government, on the basis of the contract on transfer of a child to a family for rearing and employment contract.

The foster family as a form of placement of children without parental care is formed on the base 2 contracts:

1) of the Treaty on the transfer of the child (children) in the care of a family

2) employment contract

Both contracts are concluded between the tutorship and guardianship agencies and prospective adoptive parents. The foster family is transferred to the child (children) under the age of majority. The minimum age is not set by law, but the period of education of children in foster care must be provided in the contract is one of the obligatory conditions of the contract.

Who can be foster parents?

The adoptive parents (parent) can be adult persons of both sexes, except:

– persons recognized by court as incapable or partially capable;

– persons deprived of parental rights by the court or restricted parental rights;

– suspended from the duties of the Trustee (Trustee) for the improper performance of assigned duties;

– former adopters, if the adoption was cancelled by the court through their own fault;

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