The type of family upbringing – molecular, integrative characteristic of family relations, the relations of parents to parent debt, different kinds of value orientations, attitudes, emotional relationship to the child, level of parental competence.
The character of family education is largely the result of parental position. Typically, there are three criteria for evaluating the parent positions – adequacy, dynamic and predictability. The adequacy characterizes the orientation of the parents in the individual psychological characteristics of the child, his age lines, as well as a measure of awareness of these features. Dynamism is a measure of the mobility of the parent positions, variability of forms and methods of communication and interaction with the child (the perception of the child as an individual, the degree of flexibility of communication with the child in different situations, variability of forms and methods of influence on the child depending on age). Predictability – the ability of parents to predict the prospects of child development and restructuring of interaction with the child.
As the basis of classification of family education by type, and types are usually distinguished: the following specific parameters:
1) the degree of emotional acceptance of the child’s parents, the interest Continue reading
So true. You became the parents of adorable creatures with huge eyes and cute curls. Increasingly, however, think: angelic appearance girls – this is not the road to life. Baby needs consistent education, she should know the rules of behavior in society and the basics of etiquette. So where to start to bring this little lady?
First of all, with yourself. No matter how exquisite children’s teachers and psychologists in the invention of new methods of working with children, still to this day there is no more effective education than the influence of their own example. Mom maybe an hour telling my daughter that the people around you need to respect. But if after this highly moral notation together they go to the store and she will see how the mother pushes the other and goes to the checkout queue – down the drain. The girl will copy this good example, because mom loves and wants to be like her. And then wonder why the child grows rude. So the rule number one: words parents need to match their actions.
Rest assured: parental example baby continuously reads – to put advertising language, 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. Girls are by nature more accurately the boys, they catch Continue reading
Many older people are faced with a situation that their adult son or daughter, whom they raised with such effort and difficulty, not has for him no respect and gratitude. If you ask people what is the reason for their negative attitude towards the mother and father, most often the answer will be the same for everybody: “They are evil, capricious and does not understand our needs.” Yes, older people tend to grumble and Express themselves intolerant of young people. But grumpy parents of the children also need to respect, and treat them with gratitude. Trouble lonely old people, which left the children is not in their nature, and their errors in the education of their children since childhood. They are unable to instill in their children respect for elders because of the lack of the approximate relationship to the parents. No matter what your parents, all people should remember the Golden rule: the best education is by example. If the parents when a child arguing with their parents resent them and shout at them, that same attitude to be expected in old age. The older the child, the harder it is to instill in him respect for elders. Under 5 years of age for a child no matter the age of a person, he can play Continue reading