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Recently we received a letter from the mother of a girl, in which she complained that her daughter was not sure myself: afraid to Express themselves in school, avoiding initiatives.
The problem described by our reader, is not new. Many parents face this: the child is closed, insecure, difficult to converge with classmates, defends his point of view. And further such insecurities can go into complexes, complicate social adaptation, will prevent him from showing his skills and find his place in life.
How can parents help the child?
Step one. Exploration
First of all need to understand the causes of uncertainty, realize, and for this purpose to analyze the situations in which it manifests itself. You should make a list of situations in which the child is experiencing difficulty. For example, he is unsure of the new situation, Blendable in an unfamiliar team, afraid to make contact with a stranger. I personally know of several examples where an insurmountable obstacle is to buy bread in the tent, because the child is shy to speak with the seller.
Or obedient child becomes aggressive when parents come to visit. He’s surly, snarling, behaves shocking, runs away, Continue reading
“During the year you should tolerate bullying.” – such was the demand classmates to 13-year-old Denis Sverdlov
– I in this school do not go! Me bullied there! – arriving home on January 19, told her parents Denis.
On the face of a boy “flaunted” a huge bruise. When the son took off his shirt, mom gasped as bruises and scratches were all over his body.
In the Tver school № 40, in class 7a, Dennis came in September, before that I studied in Nelidovo. Two years lived with grandparents while parents who moved to Tver, solved the housing problem. The boy was walking to school in high spirits, tried to study well. Then he suddenly got bruises.
I immediately suspected that something was wrong, but the son for all inquiries answered in monosyllables: “Fell”. Mom teen Natalia is still not at ease. – Then he opened the ulcer (although in the past such problems were not), began to increase blood pressure up to 160! The doctors said due to nerves.
Meanwhile, the teenager regularly come from school with bruises. My parents had an inkling that beat him there. Unable to stand, father Dennis went to school, gathered all the boys and tried Continue reading
Preschool childhood is a period of intellectual development of all mental processes, which provide the child the opportunity to become familiar with the surrounding reality. One of the most important challenges facing the system of preschool education is the full development of the personality of the preschool child: the development of cognitive, mental, physical, moral and aesthetic abilities, the formation of physical and intellectual maturity.
For the successful completion of the curriculum the child should not only know, but also consistent and evidence-based thinking. It follows that to teach a child to think logically possible only in a situation requiring interpretation. The inability to resolve the difficulties the usual way and we should encourage the child to actively search for means and ways of solving problems.
Logical thinking is based on the imagery and is the highest stage in the development of thinking. Reaching this stage is a long and complex process, as the development of logical thinking requires Continue reading