All moms are different colors. There’s brunettes, blonde, brown or red. With dark skin or light. Blue eyes, green or brown. Choosing bright outfits or discreet black. And mom different colors… soul. What are moms? And what You mother is blue or orange, or maybe red? Or green, or yellow?
No, this is not a psychological test! And not even a comic classifications, of which there are plenty in the Internet. All seriously. Now it becomes clear.
For starters, that’s what it is.
In the mid-20th century American psychologist Dr. graves and his followers don Beck and Chris Cowan has formulated the so-called theory of spiral dynamics . They took as the basis of classification of their system of values! Every individual (and even society in General) are on one level. But these same levels were identified in different colors. Turned out such a fun picture.
Why I decided to talk about it?
The fact that such important thing as a system of values, is laid in childhood, and is formed of mom and dad. In adult life it is very difficult to change. This is akin to the revolution. So we automatically projected our system of children. What they grow? Maybe now it’s easier to fix something?
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As often as possible interested in the success and behavior of their children. Teachers of school – pomoshnikov your upbringing. Counsel with them, help them from our side, it is better to learn your children.
Learn, who their friends are and spend their free time your children, how to behave on the street, in public places.
Never be sorry for a child due to the fact that he is not like everyone else.
Give the child your love and attention, but do not forget that there are other family members who are also in need.
No matter what, keep a positive view about their child.
Organize your life so that no one in the family felt a “victim”, abandoning his personal life.
Do not shield the child from responsibilities and problems .Solve all things with him.
Give a child freedom in actions and decision making.
Make sure your appearance and behavior. The child should be proud of you.
Don’t be afraid to refuse a child anything, if Scituate unreasonable.
More often, talk to the child. Remember that the TV will not replace him.
More often it begins in childhood, at least — in his youth, when, hidden from adults and imitating them, you are in the company of the same guys for the first time, drank a glass of beer or a glass of vodka or wine. Warmth spreads through your body, heart beating stronger, you’re having fun, overweening, but pretty quickly you have to fully “pay” for short intoxicating pleasure, and in the best case you pay headache, lethargy and a bad mood. For some it is already the first acquaintance with alcohol becomes their evil fate.
In his younger years, the body quickly gets used to the poison, and, look, here’s the young man or woman and enslaved by his Majesty the Alcohol. Satabase it quickly and thoroughly. Sometimes, people drink to the third, and then it became a habit, appear absenteeism at work, followed by the dismissal — and here he is patient narcological dispensary…
Alcohol is a universal poison. It affects all organs and systems of the body, lowers its defenses. But especially affects nervous and cardiovascular systems. So, drinking too much alcohol can develop alcoholic psychosis: delirium tremens, alcoholic hallucinosis, delirium of jealousy and others. They are accompanied Continue reading
Six-year-old girl were standing in a line of beautiful dolls in fancy dresses. — Playing mothers and daughters — asks the neighbor girl. — in No beauty shop. I don’t want to be a mom, they are old and ugly. – Meets girl. Alas, this attitude to the family and motherhood is not the only case not a childish illusion or superstition, and quite naturally the influence of cartoons on children. Parents try to protect their beloved children from the street. They are afraid that their children will come to frustration and mistakes. It’s better at home watching cartoons and believe in a fairy tale. Many parents have already noticed that the cartoons were no longer what they used to be. Domestic cartoons are still good and instructive, but, in comparison with foreign, very little. Around the clock on TV are American cartoons, often with children’s subtext.
How big is the influence of cartoons on children?
Looking at Western mothering, girls try to learn from their stereotypes, and the boys formed a distorted image of the future girlfriend lives — the mother of their kids. Child psychologists are unanimous: the influence of cartoons on children is huge! View these cartoons Continue reading
Children are flesh and our blood, we, the parents connected with them a deep inner Union. The happiness of children is our happiness, and sorrow because of illness, death and children’s defects for a parent’s heart is the biggest sorrow. To want their children well-being and happiness is as natural as wanting them to himself.
But, unfortunately, it happens that parents care only about temporal, and material well-being of children, seeking all possible means to have their child certainly has achieved in this life.
It is important to take care of obtaining God’s help to his children and pray for them to God. Parent prayer is the most faithful and powerful means of consolidating the happiness of children. There are many examples of how our faith, sincere, heartfelt prayer invisible and parents unexpectedly sends grace of God help their children: healing from sickness, success in learning, separation from the temptations and enticements of this world, an extract from the destructive abyss mired in destructive passions and vices. It helps to remind You about the prayer feat of mother of St. Augustine Monica. St. Theophan the recluse was advised by one of the grieving mother: “Remember the mother of St. Augustine. He wept, prayed, prayed! I begged and cried Continue reading