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Parents should help their adult children money.

The reason is that people after fifty life ends. What they already do for yourself is not necessary, therefore all children. I don’t think so. On the contrary, when the children grew up, it’s time to live for yourself. You and so all life on children busted my ass, now let will take care of itself. I myself have two children. As the Institute was finished, I stopped to help. Of course, they occasionally visit me asking for money, but I basically don’t give. Why? Me money, too. I’m better with my wife I will go somewhere or buy a new TV, or something. And so I am for my children did a lot. Life fed them, education has given them. Now I think that my parental duty done and I finally can live in pleasure.

Lyudmila, 33, administrator

I – the child who had helped parents. And I’m very grateful for that. Without them I would not have coped! I with living helped, and at work gave me. Now with my daughter sit while I earn money. Don’t know, maybe someone will say that I spoiled that they sit on the neck. But I think that’s right, when people in a family help each other. Today I need them – and they came to my aid. Tomorrow I will begin to help them if required. That’s a good thing! They helped me with work, now both parents are retired and I help them with money. Continue reading

What are moms?

All moms are different colors. There’s brunettes, blonde, brown or red. With dark skin or light. Blue eyes, green or brown. Choosing bright outfits or discreet black. And mom different colors… soul. What are moms? And what You mother is blue or orange, or maybe red? Or green, or yellow?

No, this is not a psychological test! And not even a comic classifications, of which there are plenty in the Internet. All seriously. Now it becomes clear.

For starters, that’s what it is.

In the mid-20th century American psychologist Dr. graves and his followers don Beck and Chris Cowan has formulated the so-called theory of spiral dynamics . They took as the basis of classification of their system of values! Every individual (and even society in General) are on one level. But these same levels were identified in different colors. Turned out such a fun picture.

Why I decided to talk about it?

The fact that such important thing as a system of values, is laid in childhood, and is formed of mom and dad. In adult life it is very difficult to change. This is akin to the revolution. So we automatically projected our system of children. What they grow? Maybe now it’s easier to fix something?

Beige man . no arms and no legs characterizes Continue reading

The Influence of cartoons on children

Six-year-old girl were standing in a line of beautiful dolls in fancy dresses. — Playing mothers and daughters — asks the neighbor girl. — in No beauty shop. I don’t want to be a mom, they are old and ugly. – Meets girl. Alas, this attitude to the family and motherhood is not the only case not a childish illusion or superstition, and quite naturally the influence of cartoons on children. Parents try to protect their beloved children from the street. They are afraid that their children will come to frustration and mistakes. It’s better at home watching cartoons and believe in a fairy tale. Many parents have already noticed that the cartoons were no longer what they used to be. Domestic cartoons are still good and instructive, but, in comparison with foreign, very little. Around the clock on TV are American cartoons, often with children’s subtext.

How big is the influence of cartoons on children?

Looking at Western mothering, girls try to learn from their stereotypes, and the boys formed a distorted image of the future girlfriend lives — the mother of their kids. Child psychologists are unanimous: the influence of cartoons on children is huge! View these cartoons Continue reading

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