Not a simple question. Even adults sometimes don’t hear the first time. After all, about men, and about the staff often hear such complaints: “I talk and talk, but as the wall peas. Here’s how another man to say?” But, maybe these adults have grown from children who have not learned to hear the first time? Try to teach this child still stands.
The algorithm is as follows:
1. First of all, make sure that you listen carefully
It happens that the child is absorbed in play or work and really can’t hear. By the way, I when writing a text or develop a training program that is so focused on process that is totally off from reality. So I at this point have heard, you either have very very loudly to call, or to touch. The second option is nicer. Don’t like loud noises. Therefore itself in a similar situation too, I put my hand on his shoulder, drawing attention to yourself, even a little to himself to deploy. And just making sure that I managed to be in the spotlight, beginning to speak.
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It is clear that games games strife. Four-year-old, rubaiya in “counter strike”, cause most adults are almost the same feelings as if he smoked or drank beer. (Though at desire it is possible and to find favor: say, kid trains your reaction and healthy sports rage.) But there are also special children’s computer games: developing logical thinking, ability to analyze, vocabulary, visual memory, ear training, coordination of movements; teaching reading, mathematics, drawing, languages, traffic rules and behavior in society. and so on and so forth. In General, promise a lot of “Goodies” that I want to immediately run out and buy, otherwise you will not see the child a decent education. However, among the specialist children’s doctors, teachers, psychologists — many opponents of children’s computer games than supporters. If you list the pros and cons, it will turn out so. Against: damage to the eyes and spine, computer radiation, the load on the psyche, addictive. For: the child quickly learns to read, count, acquires computer skills; everything is good in moderation; and in terms of vision and light TV is much more harmful than the computer. Now details.
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Key aspects of the development of children’s aggression any age group, including a description of types of aggression, forms of manifestation, causes and correction of behavior.
The questions of the origin of aggression in children’s behavior has long interested psychologists. It is known that problems that occur in childhood, and, as a consequence, aggressive behavior accompany the person throughout his life. In order to properly correct the aggressive behavior of the child, you need to understand the causes of aggression.
The correction process is strictly individual, and the purpose of this article – to help parents of “difficult” children to understand the situation, outlining the main errors in the upbringing and behavior of parents.
Aggression is cognitive, volitional and emotional. Most often these species do not have strict boundaries, and aggressive behavior in children can be the sum of these factors. The main task of parents – to reveal the main component and, accordingly, to choose the correct course of action and to adjust educational measures. Cognitive view of aggression consists of the definition of the object, which directed aggression and justified motivation Continue reading