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In Czech psychiatric hospitals or correctional facilities for juveniles in recent years, increasingly began to hit children, perfectly healthy, both physically and mentally. The reason was their inability to communicate with one of the divorcing or divorced parents and the reluctance offended by such behavior of the parties to accept this.

Illustrative photo Appeared a special term “the rejected parent”, and the courts, on the recommendation of social workers, often sending descendant of the shrew “love to learn” to that parent institution, specializing in the treatment of mental illness. They argue that, say, in a neutral environment where minors will not manipulate the parent is interested in the alienation of the child’s ex-partner, it will be easier to understand their feelings and to correct them. Let’s be honest – the situation manipulative influence, aimed at the child to strengthen the sole authority of one of the warring parent of the parties is more common than we would like. Parents find themselves unable to rebuild their relationship, not involving children in the divorce mezhduusobitsa.

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Why the child is lying

For starters, understand for yourself what lies in your children blame YOU. Yes, it is you, not the school, kindergarten, bad company… Here, for example: your baby is four years old, you come for a visit to aunt Alla that treats you pickles. The child turns away, not wants, says: “Tasteless!” You Chipita: “what! Aunt Alla cooks so well! Don’t talk nonsense!” Next time a son or daughter to his (her) not abused, will not be to say “tasteless” and begin to praise what he doesn’t like, but you or someone else will be pleased to listen to his “reasonable speech”. You parents are asked to come to the phone and say that they’re not home? I have been asked. I went and lied. You scolded twos? And berate me. What did you do to about these twos’t know? We are two guys from the diary tried to “withdraw” with the help of various chemicals or accurately ripped out pages.

The reasons children lie perfectly wrote the psychologist O. Yurchenko in his book “the truth about children’s lies, or what parents need to know young liars”.

Children lie because:

– parents like to invent, facilitating a life half-truths and insincerity;

– there is a lack of attention and warmth from their parents;

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Aggression in children.

Key aspects of the development of children’s aggression any age group, including a description of types of aggression, forms of manifestation, causes and correction of behavior.

The questions of the origin of aggression in children’s behavior has long interested psychologists. It is known that problems that occur in childhood, and, as a consequence, aggressive behavior accompany the person throughout his life. In order to properly correct the aggressive behavior of the child, you need to understand the causes of aggression.

The correction process is strictly individual, and the purpose of this article – to help parents of “difficult” children to understand the situation, outlining the main errors in the upbringing and behavior of parents.

Aggression is cognitive, volitional and emotional. Most often these species do not have strict boundaries, and aggressive behavior in children can be the sum of these factors. The main task of parents – to reveal the main component and, accordingly, to choose the correct course of action and to adjust educational measures. Cognitive view of aggression consists of the definition of the object, which directed aggression and justified motivation Continue reading

Guidelines to parents on the development of independence in children
The problem of educating the independence of preschool children has become a subject of research of many scientific disciplines, primarily, pedagogy and psychology. Currently teachers and psychologists revealed various possibilities…

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Parenting without punishment.
Unfortunately, our parental experience proved that the education of children in the family with the screaming, criticism, persuasion, reading lectures and sermons gives the desired result. Corporal and physical punishment…

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People's opinion: parents should help children with housing
In our country, decided to take care of their offspring. To help them obtain education, housing, to babysit their grandchildren. There's even a joke – with children have to mess…

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