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Parenting without punishment.

Unfortunately, our parental experience proved that the education of children in the family with the screaming, criticism, persuasion, reading lectures and sermons gives the desired result. Corporal and physical punishment of children make their behavior worse.

The use of traditional methods of family upbringing does not improve relations between parents and children, and often their use meets the strongest protest of the child and causes more and more sophisticated children’s manipulation .

Parents are sometimes hard to understand what mistakes upbringing and why children no longer wish to respond positively to the parenting practices . which were effective when they were kids.

The consultant should help the parents to understand that they now live in another time and in another world where children no longer accept authoritarian system of relationships and will fight against those who are trying to put pressure on them, and in the case of punishment will seek revenge. Therefore, parents are forced to learn new methods of education, which denies any kind of pressure and dominance.

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Manipulation Techniques in communication

In the minds of most of us, the word manipulation often causes negative emotions.

Many might say: manipulation in communication is deception, lies, submission of knowingly false information.

But this concept is much broader. Let’s try to understand: is it good or bad?

That there is manipulation in communication?

This is the impact of technology on the unconscious part of the human psyche for the purpose of obtaining the benefits of achieving the goal. We can say that it is the desire of the manipulator to control another person (thoughts, actions), without his knowledge.

Manipulation techniques used in communication

Here is a rough classification:

manipulation in business (interaction partners for the purpose of entering into the contract)

manipulation in the team

manipulation in the family (whether spouses or relatives),

manipulation in education («parent-child»),

manipulation in the media (imposing opinions through Newspapers, television),

manipulation in public life (politics).

Every once in his life manipulated in dealing with people, with the aim of obtaining some benefit, whether it be parents, lover, colleagues or friends. People in communicating with people sticking to its specific purpose (not always selfish).

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Divorce if there is a child

In this article we will concentrate on this topic as a divorce. if you have a child. Should I spoil the life of a child due to the fact that the parents had a fight.

Nowadays nobody can give a guarantee that it will pass so many years, and the couple will die one day, having lived a long, happy family life. Marriages are made in heaven but broken up very prosaic-on the ground among broken shards of a once beautiful love and lost dreams. Causes of destruction of the family very much, they can be associated with the character of the spouses, relations with relatives (especially parents), friends, distribution of functions and roles in the family, the intervention independent of someone’s will circumstances, such as illness or death of any family member. If the family has not had time to have children, then divorce takes place, as a rule, less painful for the couple. If you have children –they are the first, who deeply and sincerely suffering from the breakdown of relationships between parents. For children growing up in an intact family, the presence of mom and dad, sleeping in the same bed, eating at the same table or sitting on the same sofa while watching TV, this phenomenon is familiar and soothing his soul. He says to himself: okay, I’m home, all of us together. It creates a certain steady normal way of life –all in the mind, I will come to school or kindergarten. I come home and I’ll Continue reading

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