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Picture of your child.

All children love to draw. Who on the Wallpaper leaves his art, who for dad’s documents, who on the walls of the Elevator. Some children love your drawings to give to those who they are at this moment impressed, and some of his drawings comcat and throw away…

Another child draws a long, carefully stroking parts and features all the characters in the story. And someone drawing competition: times – two and you’re done! One wishes in each figure to show the real colors of paints, and the other chooses one color and only draws them all their history. There are fans to store their pictures, collect them and will be going back to finish. And there are children who long to draw something, anyone not showing the content, and then take – and will cover a dark color on top, so that absolutely no one saw.

We can safely say that children’s art is not a simple task. All of this action, including the drawing process, the subject selection of materials is a reflection of the inner world of the child. By drawing the child reports about his health, about the possible fears about the mood Continue reading

Parents should help their adult children money.

The reason is that people after fifty life ends. What they already do for yourself is not necessary, therefore all children. I don’t think so. On the contrary, when the children grew up, it’s time to live for yourself. You and so all life on children busted my ass, now let will take care of itself. I myself have two children. As the Institute was finished, I stopped to help. Of course, they occasionally visit me asking for money, but I basically don’t give. Why? Me money, too. I’m better with my wife I will go somewhere or buy a new TV, or something. And so I am for my children did a lot. Life fed them, education has given them. Now I think that my parental duty done and I finally can live in pleasure.

Lyudmila, 33, administrator

I – the child who had helped parents. And I’m very grateful for that. Without them I would not have coped! I with living helped, and at work gave me. Now with my daughter sit while I earn money. Don’t know, maybe someone will say that I spoiled that they sit on the neck. But I think that’s right, when people in a family help each other. Today I need them – and they came to my aid. Tomorrow I will begin to help them if required. That’s a good thing! They helped me with work, now both parents are retired and I help them with money. Continue reading

What are moms?

All moms are different colors. There’s brunettes, blonde, brown or red. With dark skin or light. Blue eyes, green or brown. Choosing bright outfits or discreet black. And mom different colors… soul. What are moms? And what You mother is blue or orange, or maybe red? Or green, or yellow?

No, this is not a psychological test! And not even a comic classifications, of which there are plenty in the Internet. All seriously. Now it becomes clear.

For starters, that’s what it is.

In the mid-20th century American psychologist Dr. graves and his followers don Beck and Chris Cowan has formulated the so-called theory of spiral dynamics . They took as the basis of classification of their system of values! Every individual (and even society in General) are on one level. But these same levels were identified in different colors. Turned out such a fun picture.

Why I decided to talk about it?

The fact that such important thing as a system of values, is laid in childhood, and is formed of mom and dad. In adult life it is very difficult to change. This is akin to the revolution. So we automatically projected our system of children. What they grow? Maybe now it’s easier to fix something?

Beige man . no arms and no legs characterizes Continue reading

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