We are all children of their parents. We trust them with early childhood – because they raised us and cared for us. Over time, many and become parents themselves, and are surprised to find what it is hard work. But understanding that we are the ones, previous and often have not ended the relationship – for example, mother-daughter time.
With a high probability will not “adjust” to the new realities, and to rebuild completely. The girl grew up, the mother persists – where the roots of this conflict and how it is properly resolved?
Difficult period of growing up
Maturing sons is relatively easier, but not softer. Girls tend to agree with mom, or at least not to conflict once again. But the children quite dramatically declare their own independence and isolation. Therefore, the question “how to build a mother relationship with adult daughter?” is much sharper than in the relationship “son – father”.
The worst thing that you can think of, and that certainly will affect the entire life of girls, the future women are defending their “maturity”. The right to be themselves, to have their own beliefs and causes quarrels, complex relationships grown daughters with my mom. How to establish a mother’s relationship with adult daughter, if both sides persist?
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Chapter 1. Theoretical approaches to the problem of aggression in adolescents from disadvantaged families
1.1 the Psychological characteristics of adolescence
1.2 the Problem of aggressiveness of personality in modern psychology. Adolescent aggressiveness
1.3 Psychological problems of adolescents from families with alcohol dependence
2.1 Description of research methodology
2.2 the results of the study
The list of references
The problem of aggression is one of the most significant problems of modern psychology.
Alarming is the growing number of children with deviant behavior, manifested in antisocial behavior (alcoholism, drug abuse, violation of public order, hooliganism, vandalism, etc.). Increased demonstrative and defiant in relation to adult behavior. In extreme forms began to show violence and aggression. Dramatically increased crime among young people. Compared with the recent past, an increasing number of serious crimes, the mind fixes an increase of conflicts and cases Continue reading
Unfortunately, our parental experience proved that the education of children in the family with the screaming, criticism, persuasion, reading lectures and sermons gives the desired result. Corporal and physical punishment of children make their behavior worse.
The use of traditional methods of family upbringing does not improve relations between parents and children, and often their use meets the strongest protest of the child and causes more and more sophisticated children’s manipulation .
Parents are sometimes hard to understand what mistakes upbringing and why children no longer wish to respond positively to the parenting practices . which were effective when they were kids.
The consultant should help the parents to understand that they now live in another time and in another world where children no longer accept authoritarian system of relationships and will fight against those who are trying to put pressure on them, and in the case of punishment will seek revenge. Therefore, parents are forced to learn new methods of education, which denies any kind of pressure and dominance.
Before parents raises the question of How to raise children without punishment . and is it possible Continue reading