For starters, understand for yourself what lies in your children blame YOU. Yes, it is you, not the school, kindergarten, bad company… Here, for example: your baby is four years old, you come for a visit to aunt Alla that treats you pickles. The child turns away, not wants, says: “Tasteless!” You Chipita: “what! Aunt Alla cooks so well! Don’t talk nonsense!” Next time a son or daughter to his (her) not abused, will not be to say “tasteless” and begin to praise what he doesn’t like, but you or someone else will be pleased to listen to his “reasonable speech”. You parents are asked to come to the phone and say that they’re not home? I have been asked. I went and lied. You scolded twos? And berate me. What did you do to about these twos’t know? We are two guys from the diary tried to “withdraw” with the help of various chemicals or accurately ripped out pages.
The reasons children lie perfectly wrote the psychologist O. Yurchenko in his book “the truth about children’s lies, or what parents need to know young liars”.
Children lie because:
– parents like to invent, facilitating a life half-truths and insincerity;
– there is a lack of attention and warmth from their parents;
– children Continue reading
We are all children of their parents. We trust them with early childhood – because they raised us and cared for us. Over time, many and become parents themselves, and are surprised to find what it is hard work. But understanding that we are the ones, previous and often have not ended the relationship – for example, mother-daughter time.
With a high probability will not “adjust” to the new realities, and to rebuild completely. The girl grew up, the mother persists – where the roots of this conflict and how it is properly resolved?
Difficult period of growing up
Maturing sons is relatively easier, but not softer. Girls tend to agree with mom, or at least not to conflict once again. But the children quite dramatically declare their own independence and isolation. Therefore, the question “how to build a mother relationship with adult daughter?” is much sharper than in the relationship “son – father”.
The worst thing that you can think of, and that certainly will affect the entire life of girls, the future women are defending their “maturity”. The right to be themselves, to have their own beliefs and causes quarrels, complex relationships grown daughters with my mom. How to establish a mother’s relationship with adult daughter, if both sides persist?
5-7 years. Continue reading
Spain shocked the scandal with the theft of hundreds of thousands of children
Stolen children in Spain. Here scandal is gaining momentum associated with the theft of children in hospitals across the country. The Spaniards learned that for several decades, starting with the 40’s until the 90’s, doctors, nurses and nuns took away children from their parents and given up for adoption or sold. The Spanish authorities have admitted that the theft took place. The country is now in the courts begin on the first guilty. But at the same time, the officials did not call even approximate figures. They give voice to the victims and historians. In their opinion, speech can go about 300 thousands of stolen children. Tatiana Logunova visited Spain and tried to assess the scale of the tragedy.
That she will have triplets, Angela Alvarez said different doctors. Pregnancy it went well, without any problems. They began only in the hospital of Barcelona, where the woman was brought to bear. November 3, 76th Angela reported that all the doctors were wrong and she was not born triplets, and two healthy boys. And the day after that one of them died.
Angela Alvarez, the victim:
I didn’t understand what was going on. Okay, made a mistake with the triplets, they were accurate and reliable surveys as they are now. But why the second Continue reading