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Guidelines to parents on the development of independence in children

The problem of educating the independence of preschool children has become a subject of research of many scientific disciplines, primarily, pedagogy and psychology. Currently teachers and psychologists revealed various possibilities of the family and the kindergarten in the education of the independence of children. It is therefore very important influence in the field of education, to increase knowledge and skills of parents in the education of independence. To this end it is necessary to systematically acquaint parents with the content and methods of education of independence in children of this age, with the requirements of the kindergarten to develop skills of independence. In addition, they need to meet with different levels of manifestation of autonomy in children, psychological-pedagogical and organizational conditions and methods of work with them.

Thus, the necessary conditions that ensure the efficiency of formation autonomy in the application in children data from differentiated groups according to the level of its manifestation, are:

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Parenting without punishment.

Unfortunately, our parental experience proved that the education of children in the family with the screaming, criticism, persuasion, reading lectures and sermons gives the desired result. Corporal and physical punishment of children make their behavior worse.

The use of traditional methods of family upbringing does not improve relations between parents and children, and often their use meets the strongest protest of the child and causes more and more sophisticated children’s manipulation .

Parents are sometimes hard to understand what mistakes upbringing and why children no longer wish to respond positively to the parenting practices . which were effective when they were kids.

The consultant should help the parents to understand that they now live in another time and in another world where children no longer accept authoritarian system of relationships and will fight against those who are trying to put pressure on them, and in the case of punishment will seek revenge. Therefore, parents are forced to learn new methods of education, which denies any kind of pressure and dominance.

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Manipulation Techniques in communication

In the minds of most of us, the word manipulation often causes negative emotions.

Many might say: manipulation in communication is deception, lies, submission of knowingly false information.

But this concept is much broader. Let’s try to understand: is it good or bad?

That there is manipulation in communication?

This is the impact of technology on the unconscious part of the human psyche for the purpose of obtaining the benefits of achieving the goal. We can say that it is the desire of the manipulator to control another person (thoughts, actions), without his knowledge.

Manipulation techniques used in communication

Here is a rough classification:

manipulation in business (interaction partners for the purpose of entering into the contract)

manipulation in the team

manipulation in the family (whether spouses or relatives),

manipulation in education («parent-child»),

manipulation in the media (imposing opinions through Newspapers, television),

manipulation in public life (politics).

Every once in his life manipulated in dealing with people, with the aim of obtaining some benefit, whether it be parents, lover, colleagues or friends. People in communicating with people sticking to its specific purpose (not always selfish).

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