“Why daddy ?” asked my daughter when she was 7 years old. “Without him you would not exist. And yet he cares about us, that we were fine,” I replied, and she thought.
Modern woman strives for autonomy and independence. The experience of grandmothers, mothers, girlfriends teaches that men cannot be counted. They are killed in war, they drink, go to other women, change their sexual orientation, their gambling addiction sucks… In the mind there is the image of men as something unstable, and a desire to avoid the mistakes of the older generation when the hostess was carrying the entire burden of care for yourself. “It is better to raise one than with this…”
How can that be? On the one hand, you want a reliable and faithful husband, a beautiful harmonious relationship, a loving father to his children. But, on the other hand, the parental experience of family or close friends, finally, my own first experience of the marital relationship scandals, lack of understanding, the threat of divorce is not an opportunity to relax and just enjoy family life. The woman at the slightest misunderstanding begins to doubt her choice as to the perfect father for the child.
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Of course, for a child of any age need attention and love of the father. As son and daughter.
The boy who feels no father’s support, takes the model of behavior of the mother. Dullnesses a boy can not only turn into a “sissy”, but in adult life be deprived of a normal family. Because in order to become a real man, the son should have a role model to know how to behave like a man. All this boy can give a loving and attentive father.
Girls usually look for in my elected representatives are the features who they liked in the fathers. I.e. dad becomes a kind of “strap”, which to raise your power. Father helps daughter to realize that she is beautiful and smart. These compliments father daughter will remember for a long time.
For kids it is very important to see and hear close by, a mother and father. Studies have shown that children whose fathers participated in their education active participation, more sociable and calm. So dad often has to take the child in his arms, talking to him.
Many men are afraid to take small children on his hands, in this situation, the mother must show and explain how to properly handle the child.
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All children love to draw. Who on the Wallpaper leaves his art, who for dad’s documents, who on the walls of the Elevator. Some children love your drawings to give to those who they are at this moment impressed, and some of his drawings comcat and throw away…
Another child draws a long, carefully stroking parts and features all the characters in the story. And someone drawing competition: times – two and you’re done! One wishes in each figure to show the real colors of paints, and the other chooses one color and only draws them all their history. There are fans to store their pictures, collect them and will be going back to finish. And there are children who long to draw something, anyone not showing the content, and then take – and will cover a dark color on top, so that absolutely no one saw.
We can safely say that children’s art is not a simple task. All of this action, including the drawing process, the subject selection of materials is a reflection of the inner world of the child. By drawing the child reports about his health, about the possible fears about the mood Continue reading